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Love Addiction Evaluation Quiz

PUT A CHECK NEXT TO ANY STATEMENTS THAT DESCRIBE YOU IN THE PRESENT OR HAVE DESCRIBED YOU IN THE PAST.

___  1. I am driven by one or more compulsions (relationships, sex, food, drugs, etc.).


___  2. I think my self-esteem is low.
 

___  3. I think that my happiness depends on having a loving relationship.
 

___  4. I often fantasize to avoid reality or loneliness.
 

___  5. I feel I need to be “good” enough to earn love from others.
 

___  6. I will do almost anything for that desired loving relationship.
 

___  7. I find it difficult to say “no” and set healthy boundaries, especially with men.
 

___  8. I keep looking for a relationship to fill what is missing or lacking in my life.
 

___  9. I find myself thinking that things will (or would) be better in this new relationship.
 

___  10. I have always felt a distance and/or lack of love from my dad.
 

___  11. I have a difficult time having an intimate relationship with God.
 

___  12. I vacillate from over-control to out-of-control behavior in any of these areas: relationships,

             sex, food, money, drugs.
 

___  13. I crave and fear intimacy at the same time.
 

___  14. I have used sex to get love.
 

___  15. I have used sex and seduction to dominate a man and be in control.
 

___  16. I take responsibility for people, tasks and situations for which I am not responsible.
 

___  17. I find myself in relationships that echo my past abuse.
 

___  18. I was sexually abused as a child or adolescent.
 

___  19. I have stayed in romantic relationships after they became emotionally or physically abusive.
 

___  20. I often find myself preoccupied with sexual thoughts or romantic daydreams.
 

___  21. I do have trouble stopping my sexual behavior when I know it is inappropriate.
 

___  22. I have hurt others emotionally because of my sexual/romantic behavior.
 

___  23. I do feel bad at times about my sexual behavior.
 

___  24. I have worried about people finding out about my sexual activities.
 

___  25. I feel controlled by my sexual desire or fantasies of romance.
 

___  26. I have been sexually or romantically involved with inappropriate people such as a boss,

             a married person.
 

___  27. When I have sex or am involved in sexual activity, I often feel depressed afterwards.
 

___  28. I have become emotionally or sexually involved with people I don’t know.

_____ TOTAL NUMBER OF ITEMS CHECKED

If you scored over 6 checked items, we recommend seeking counseling.